The laundry is due in about twenty five minutes and yes it is that time again. However, I learned from the time when using the laundromat, that doing two loads first and one later is easier to handle. So, I’ll try that pattern for a while.
Yesterday John and I had lunch in the Devonian gardens at his suggestion. The West end of it, I had never visited since its renovation some years ago and I was amazed at the elaborate nature of the changes. This all adds to the cost of shopping there, but people flock there regardless. I remarked to John, that compared to my home kitchen I was having lunch - home made - in a temple, one of commerce I might add. We both agreed on this view, but enjoyed this gift of these capitalist gods no less for it.
On the way back, walking again, I stopped at the Lindt store to buy a few presents for the season and further up the street some wine for that reason! There I was honked at by my former wife, who was driving out of the alley and had stopped for me. I did not recognise her at first, but after the honk I turned and made the connection. We stopped and chatted for a bit. She still roams and wanders between Calgary and Victoria as she has done for almost twenty years.
This ‘chance’ meeting reminded me this time that relationships need work, skill and dedication. The latter was there, but the first two were not sufficient in my case, but at least I am still learning from it as I recall memories and experiences at various times.
I can do that, because I decided at divorce time to not let its acrimony over rule or take away the good memories and experiences that we had shared. This turned out to be a piece of unexpected wisdom and good fortune, enabling me to keep learning from those very significant twenty seven years of my life together with my former spouse.
It was two pm when I got back, so after my snooze I just marked up the daily entry, emailed a bit and got supper ready. The evening was spent on web news and some copying of links to the Gaia satellite story, followed by the evening news, with a good panel discussion with the issue guys.
Laundry time is here; on return ‘I’m good to go’ until about ten am.